Many of the most important aspects of great style are nonmaterial. Clothing can only take you so far, and below are the 5 ways you can improve what’s already in your closet.

Posture– By standing up straight, pulling your shoulders back, sucking your stomach in, you’re helping clothing look its best.

Undergarments– While this is technically a material object, beautiful and well made bras aren’t visible to the outside world so I feel it’s fair to include them in this list. For busty women, these pieces are non-negotiables, and the wonderful ladies at Christina’s will help with everything.

Positive Attitude– There is no better accessory than a smile. We all have our days, but don’t look for the negative in everything, or constantly complain, or blame the world for your problems.

Tidy– Make sure your clothing is free of stains, rips, pulls, and (for wool and cashmere) pills and that everything is ironed and steamed (when applicable). No matter how stylish your outfit, much of the effect is lost when not presented in its best condition.

Confidence– You have to believe that your outfits look great and are a reflection of you. In the beginning, many of my clients aren’t certain of either, but with time develop the assurance that they do look fabulous. If you’re not there yet, my advice is this: fake it till you make it.

One of the most common questions I field from clients is ‘do you like it?’ Do I like this sweater, or this pair of boots, this scarf or this beaded necklace? Often, whether or not I ‘like’ something will be the only factor determining whether or not it will remain in my client’s closet or accompany her home from the store…. Or so she thinks. But will it surprise you to learn that whether or not I personally ‘like’ something has no bearing on my opinion of it for you? How could that possibly be true??

I wanted to write about this topic because I think it’s a common misconception that stylists merely impart their particular style and opinion onto our clients; if I like something, you should like it too. This is, plainly, not true and it’s important that you understand why. For starters, the only factors I use to determine whether or not something is right for my clients are these: Is it dated? Will it work to help achieve the look we’re going for? Is it in good condition? Will it look good on you? Can we find a better/upgraded version of it? My personal opinion and whether or not I would want to wear it/own it has no bearing on these questions; ‘Liking’ is irrelevant to how it will or won’t work for you.

I think ‘like’ is a misnomer, so when I say it or we use it, it’s a shorthand way of saying ‘I approve of it for you’: I like this top because it’s versatile and will help make 5 different outfits with all your blazers. I like these shoes because they are high quality, fun, and help bring color into your outfits. I like your collection of pashminas because they’re colorful and express your amazing trips. Keep this in mind when working with me, or any other stylist. It’s not our job for you to express our style; it’s our job to help you express yours.